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Online Not that Into You

Posted on October 15, 2009 by Two Becomes One

Signs that They Just Aren’t Into You

I am sure we’ve all had to wonder at some point or another if someone was into us- mixed signals and whatnot that made it really hard to tell. However, sometimes there are indicators that while they are not exactly forthcoming, they are pretty clear indicators that someone online just may not be into you. If you are seeing these signs, it may be a good idea to back up a bit and stop the chase.

Constant Rebuffs

Yes, sometimes people are too busy, and lead very hectic lives. But do you find that no matter what you ask this person to do, they always have something else going on? Do you seem to notice that rather than suggest a time when they aren’t going to be busy they just say no, give you a reason and leave it at that? Chances are good you’re dealing with someone who is trying to be nice, but isn’t really interested. It’s probably best to not compound this and make it more awkward by continued attempts.

Are You Being Ignored?

Do you sometimes find that the person you have been trying to connect with somehow just rarely responds to your IMS, or perhaps you’re getting one word responses? Sometimes this is done with a “brb” that never comes right back. Chances are good if you know the object of your internet affections is in fact online but they aren’t responding to you- they don’t want to. This one can be a bit tricky if this person actually is working at the time, but if you start to notice that this is the case pretty much everytime you try to talk, you may be dealing with a rejection that has been delayed.
Another variation on this may be lack of responses to emails, messages on social networking sites and similar things. Before you fly off the handle, though, you may want to be sure that is actually what is going on.

Did You Get a Number?

If you have been talking to someone off and on for some time now and they’ve still not dropped the phone number, this is another hint that sometimes misses. Yes, it’s true, sometimes people are just too nice to simply block and delete you- it’s not really a fair way to go about things, but sometimes, they are just hoping you’ll take the hint and go away. If the online thing hasn’t moved on to phone by a few weeks, you may really be dealing with someone who’s just not that into you.

Now, true, each of these things individually can mean different things. Often, people have busy lives and they just aren’t quick to respond or for whatever reason, any of these may apply at any given time. However, if you find yourself able to check off all of these things like a list? It may be time to pick it up and move on.

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